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Potty training help - 7/29/2008 10:24:27 AM   
karacai


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Hello

I am having trouble potty training my second child. The first born was potty trained by 26 months old. My second child is now 26 months old and is not very enthusiastic about the potty. I thought she was ready because she is telling me when her diaper is dirty.

I have tried encouraging her by letting her big sister show her how to use the potty and help her. I have tried bribing by telling her I will give her a lollipop or coins if she uses her potty. And, I have tried the method that worked with my oldest, which is going bare bottom so that she learns to "feel" when she has to pee.

She is protesting and I don't want to force her and make her have bad feelings about using the potty. Should I try another method of encouraging her or should I wait until she is a little older? I assumed the second child would be really easy to potty train, but that is what I get for assumming! Thanks for your advice in advance!
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RE: Potty training help - 7/29/2008 12:34:28 PM   
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I am learning that every child learns this milestone differently. My first brought me to tears, with her constant "accidents". She was almost 3 before she succeed.

My 2nd was a dream child. Literally, she was trained in 2 weeks. I did do something differently with her. Instead of the booster seat at mealtime, we used the potty chair. She even sat on it in front of the tv watching her videos. It really helped her learning that "feeling", w/o the messes.

Now I'm working on the 3rd and I could tell from day one that he would be a challenge. This kid absolutely hates getting his diaper changed. I have to wrestle him to the ground. He would go all day with a dirty diaper if it were up to him.

Maybe your daughter just isn't quite ready. Like I said, they're all different. God made sure of that didn't He?
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RE: Potty training help - 7/29/2008 1:12:45 PM   
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Can you get her to at least sit on the potty while you, say, clean her teeth and wash her face? You can tell her she doesn't need to do anything, just sit there.

Same with sitting on a potty in front of the TV. Again, tell her she doesn't have to do anything, just sit there.

I'd forget the bribes/rewards btw - to my mind that makes it far too important, rather than matter of fact.

If she won't even sit on it without having to do anything, I'd say totally leave it for a couple of weeks, and then try again.

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RE: Potty training help - 7/29/2008 2:57:28 PM   
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We gave our daughter encouragement, but let her decide when to start using the potty. It was a long process that started when she was 2 years old. She liked her little potty and would sit on it, but she wasn't interested in putting anything in it. We also got a little step stool and a seat that fits on the toilet for her. She liked the novelty of that for a while too, but didn't really want to use it. She did use each of those eventually but only about once a week for quite a while. She only started using the potty consistently when she was almost 3. She turned 3 in April and she's now totally potty trained during the day (she wears a pull-up and doesn't potty during sleep at night). It was a long road, but it was her timing and we just had to go with the flow (so to speak).

I'm blessed to stay home with her and it made things much easier. Are you a stay at home mom as well?

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RE: Potty training help - 7/29/2008 3:49:05 PM   
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My son was easy. He didn't fuss or argue. Just went when we told him too and had very few accidents.

My second child (daughter) seemed like she was going to be just as easy (but that is because we were using my first as a comparision) and it wasn't so. But we just put her on at regular times. Every 15 minutes after she ate and drank until she went and made a really huge deal when she did. We used pullups and when she got to the point where she was having very few accidents in her pullups, I just put a panyliner in her underpants and she responded well to that. She had enough protection to get her to the bathroom if she waited too long, but not the comfort of a pullup to keep the moisture away from her if she felt like being lazy or just didn't want to comply.

Now the third one was not nearly as nice to us. She was telling us she had to go potty by 18 months, but REFUSED to sit on that toilet. I never had a potty chair until I had her. I tried the usual cusion seat on top of the toilet first because I hate potty chairs, but that didn't work, and we did resort to putting the potty chair in front of the tv and so on. Never thought about using it at the table though. I will have to file that idea away for when my children are training their kids.

But she just didn't want to so for her, we would try her and if she wasn't open to it, we waited two weeks and tried again. After a couple of months, she was open to the idea and decided that she wanted to go on the potty train too.
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