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Shay5218 -> Deprived of sex (8/20/2008 3:55:24 PM)
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Me and my husband have a wonderful relationship in christ , our family of four is wonderful , no complaints , I thank God for it . My husband and I both have busy schedules and I work nights and he works days I have a lot on my plate dealing with the 2 and 4 year olds once I wake from the morning nap . My husband is gone for the daytime drama . But he manages to make time for sex once a week at his convience , this has been going on for 8 years we have been married 12 years and I always try to let him know in a nice way that I need it more sex .
Sometimes we only have it twice a month and he seems ok and then he may get a quicky from me on the way to work right before I leave , I am always game because I am desperate. I have no problems with the quickies but if I do that to him all choas breaks out . My husband does not like his schedule to be interrupted from me or the children or he becomes in a rage of anger . So I don't ask anymore to have sex when I want , I will just wait until he is ready , this has grown old.
I am 39 years old and recently my sex drive has increased tremendausoly and I am ready at all times . I explained this to my husband and suggested that maybe three times a week would take care of the issue , he told me to seek help for my frustration from a counseler or something , he also advised me to purchase items that could help me during the week so it would not disrupt his schedule . He said to me can't we just have sex on th weekend saturday , I explained to him that I was not satisfied with that and I want to feel like I can come to him for sex at my request too without you getting angry at me .
Right now I am overwhelmed with passion and I am weak , I don't want to use porn or any other means to get satisfied , I am supposed to be able to go to my husband for my needs to be met I am at the end of my rope and it is even hard to read the bible or concentrate on anything because sex is on my mind all day and night . If anyone can give me some advice it would be a blessing to me .
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