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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/1/2008 9:44:49 PM   
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Sorry I'm late on this, but little people have their Mayflower and Thanksgiving sets on clearance. You can only buy them through the catalog or on sale. They are very cute!!!
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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/1/2008 10:33:52 PM   
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Jae the ped's here either tell you get THIS or the pharmacy makes their own triple paste.

A friend of mine's little boy had it so severe he was peeling with they wiped him. They immediately changed to rinsing him off and using the above paste AFTER using all of the tub the pharmacy made for $50!!

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 9:47:26 AM   
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Cappy - What exactly IS that?!

Brandy - I tried Dr. Smith's diaper rash/ointment just yesterday and his butt is looking so much better!

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 10:00:24 AM   
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Isaac had his 4 month vacc's yesterday and I was expecting a fussy baby (he was so cranky when he had his first ones at the NICU) but he was a dream! He napped, woke up and ate, and then played. He's such a wonderful little boy. I just had to share that, I woke up this morning so happy to be his mommy.

Today makes 63 days Isaac has been home, the same length of time he was in the NICU. That milestone makes me happy.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 10:34:59 AM   
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Today makes 63 days Isaac has been home, the same length of time he was in the NICU. That milestone makes me happy.



Congratulations, Erin!!

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 4:13:04 PM   
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Cappy - What exactly IS that?!


Gentian violet? It's one of those things you'd find in a "natural"-oriented pharmacy or a health-foods place. Old fashioned remedy. Bright purple and will stain things badly. But it works. Even my doctor-parents think it's great, since they saw it used very effectively when we were at the community. I found it at a specialty pharmacy around here for about $5 (called around pharmacy's in the yellow pagest until I found one that had it). It's a little bottle but it lasts forever. I dip a q-tip in the bottle and paint it on the baby's butt.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 4:19:38 PM   
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Some of our Walgreen's carry Gentian Violet, depending on what market they primarily serve.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 10:00:10 PM   
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I regularly see Gentian Violet at our Dollar General store here in rural podunk U.S.A. A little bottle for $2.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/2/2008 10:01:56 PM   
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My regular pharmacy did not have it on the shelf, but the pharmacist did order it for me. They also don't carry chewable acidophilus, but will order it for me when I ask. All you have to do is ask...

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 12:15:56 AM   
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Jae - I was gonna suggest - PLAIN YOGURT! But if it's already getting better then yippee!

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 9:58:11 AM   
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I am feeling at a loss. Jadon will not sleep longer than four hours. When he wakes up he definitely eats. I don't know to explain it, but I feel like it's more of a 'trained' issue than the fact that he is hungry. I'm just starting to feel so discouraged that I'll never get to sleep longer than four hours. Even resentful. Not resentful of Jadon, but resentful i can't sleep. He'll be 9 months old at the 12th. I thought I'd get more sleep by this point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate teething. Despise it. They are what ruined a beautiful sleep night time.

Last night he ate at 6, 8, 11:30, 3:30, 7:30. If I just try to let him self soothe he SCREAMS bloody murder until we get him. He will only drink out of one sippy cup and that sippy cup gets everywhere on his upper body so I don't want to do that when he's in bed. He already has a passy. All he wants are my breasts.

I would like to mention he does self soothe in those four hours. I hear him wake up, stir, and go back to sleep so he CAN self soothe. He just won't do it at that 3 or 4 hour mark.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 10:05:54 AM   
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Did you say he has 6 teeth at the moment, Janine? If so, there'll likely be two more on the way soon. He will likely settle down a bit more after they come.

Have you tried getting the Hylands Teething remedy that a number of ladies here have recommended? It helps by soothing the whole system.

Also, is Jadon having 3 solid meals per day now?

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ORIGINAL: Flintejae
Last night he ate at 6, 8, 11:30, 3:30, 7:30.


So he's actually really only waking twice in the night for a feed? That's GOOD!! Won't be long before he drops one more of those, both of them even.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 10:41:50 AM   
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Honestly I only see one night time feeding, the 3:30 one.

The others are too close to normal wake hours for me to call them night feeds really. The 11:30 would be pushing it.

Janine, this is just a fraction of time in your life. It will pass.

I totally agree with Manda, there are more teeth coming even if you can't see/feel them!

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 10:44:16 AM   
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Want to add this..

If he is going through a growth spurt, he may truly need that feeding. Alot of babies do.

Also, I can't remember the number of moms on here who have said they didn't sleep through the night until after a year. Some babies need that night feeding, they grow so much during sleep that they physically need those calories to replenish what they just spent while sleeping.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 10:57:45 AM   
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quote:

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Honestly I only see one night time feeding, the 3:30 one.

The others are too close to normal wake hours for me to call them night feeds really. The 11:30 would be pushing it.


Funny you should say that! I originally put "one night feed" and then thought that maybe for Janine the 11.30 is a night feed if she is the sort to go to bed early. I personally wouldn't have classed it as a night feed, since I don't go to bed till after midnight (didn't even back then when the babies were small).

At 5-6 months, I regarded my ds's "bedtime" as 11pm, which was when he had his "last" feed for the day. It was not until he was 8 months or so before we managed to pull that back to 8 or 9, and it still often involved him stirring at around 11pm.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 10:59:43 AM   
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Also, I can't remember the number of moms on here who have said they didn't sleep through the night until after a year.



My ds stopped needing a night-time feed by about 8/9 months, but he'd wake briefly once or twice in the night right up until he was almost 4. I only offered water, and he'd go back down again really quickly 99% of the time.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 11:27:47 AM   
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My only real thought to that Manda is that you started your kids on a much different schedule/sleep style than Janine did, ya know?

Our little one sleeps with me all curled up and happy and I love it. My mom got on me recnetly about it and said that we would want her out soon so we can have our ed back. I told her that after 10 years of no babies we are treasuring every single 'baby' moment we get. She may very well be our only child so we want lap up every oppertunity we have to be in contact with her. But I'm also a totally different parent than my mom was. I'm very hands on and attached to her physically and I think that may cause some mixed emotions for my mom.

I don't mind when Isabel wakes up at 3 for a feed. I get to snuggle with her and it's just me and her and I love it. I still sleep during the day when she sleeps at least once so I am still getting enough rest.

But bottom line, Janine, you have to find a balance for you Jason and Jadon that you can all thrive on.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 11:59:52 AM   
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My niece is 15 months and still needs a 4am feeding, though she goes to bed at 8pm, so by 4am she's been foodless for 8 hours. She also eats very little solids, never liked the pureed stuff, and she's only just now getting into table food.

I think it's different for every kid, but Jadon's schedule doesn't sound to bad to me. I'm pretty sure Nathan still had the occasional night feeding at 8/9 months, though I don't clearly remember. Certainly he wasn't sleeping completely through the night.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 12:18:29 PM   
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Sounds pretty normal to me too, Jae.

Maybe it would help if you just decided to be okay with 4 hour stretches of sleep? Like get it in your head that that's how it's going to be, so you're not disappointed when that is what happens? And then if he sleeps longer (and he WILL...eventually), then GREAT!

I know it's hard to have to wake up constantly. Esther slept the whole way home from Sandy's (2.5 hours), so she didn't want to go to sleep when *I* wanted to, and I was exhausted and knew we had a busy day today. So what did I do? I cried and stomped my feet and had a temper tantrum. LOL...yup, seriously, I did. I was tired and I let my emotions take over. Then I realized how ridiculous I was being, calmed down, and wouldn't you know...the little Princess fell asleep. Ha. We all have our moments...


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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 2:02:29 PM   
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Donna - I'm glad I'm not the only one known to throw tantrums! You are right. I need to just accept and know that four hours is the max I'll get uninterrupted. Good advice.

Thanks to everyone else for responding. At least it's considered 'normal'. that helps me feel a little better about the fact that I'm tired, but will get to sleep longer some day. thanks. :)

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 2:06:41 PM   
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Jae-bad news: sounds pretty normal. Good news: as someone already said this is a teeny, tiny fraction of your life.

What time does he go to bed? What if you gave him a "dream feed" just before you went to bed? That would probably eliminate the 11.30 feeding and cut it down to only one nightly interruption.

I totally understand the desire for a pre-baby sleep schedule. BTDT, three times. However, it's not abnormal for even a 1 yr old or young toddler to still wake at night. And it's not unnatural either. And it doesn't mean you've been a bad mom, or lax in discipline, or whatever. Sometimes it just *is* and you live with it and he will grow out of it eventually. You have been working with him, from what I understand. If it's not working, perhaps an 8 hour night is something that needs to be shelved for another month or two, rather than you spending those two months fretting and upset that it's not happening.

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 2:11:15 PM   
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quote:

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My niece is 15 months and still needs a 4am feeding, though she goes to bed at 8pm, so by 4am she's been foodless for 8 hours. She also eats very little solids, never liked the pureed stuff, and she's only just now getting into table food.

I think it's different for every kid, but Jadon's schedule doesn't sound to bad to me. I'm pretty sure Nathan still had the occasional night feeding at 8/9 months, though I don't clearly remember. Certainly he wasn't sleeping completely through the night.


Gabby still isn't sleeping entirely through the night because she will wake at some point(usually between 3-5) and need something- more water, her pacifier. Last night she woke up SIX times. Boy, I realized that I do not want a newborn anytime soon, lol.

Janine, maybe you should go to bed a bit earlier. Really, 11:30-7:30 is not a bad stretch of sleep even if you getting up once to do a feeding. No, it's not like what it was pre-baby but the truth is that you might not get pre-baby sleep for another couple of years, especially if you get pregnant any time soon.

My mom told me that when she had my youngest 3 siblings she calculated that she went nearly 5 years getting up several times a night

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 2:14:58 PM   
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Gabby still isn't sleeping entirely through the night because she will wake at some point(usually between 3-5) and need something- more water, her pacifier. Last night she woke up SIX times. Boy, I realized that I do not want a newborn anytime soon, lol.

We waited to try for our second baby till Jonathan was only waking once a night! (believe me, I've been there with the 6+ times a night, lol, but only with him, not with Sarah)

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 3:42:02 PM   
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LOL Ryanne, that's why I wasn't ready for another baby until Grace was well settled in her bed etc. Boy oh boy I couldn't have had Nath any earlier than I did!!

Wow 5 years for your mum!! What a star

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RE: Baby Chat (take 5)!!!!! - 12/3/2008 5:04:40 PM   
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Cappy:

His nighttime routine consists of this:
Feeding solids
bath time
lotion/dress time
brush teeth
Reading (sometimes, sometimes not)
nursing
Sleep almost instantly

He was going to bed around 5 or 6, but within the last few weeks its' been 6 or 7. I think what's so hard is the interrupted sleep. I don't do good with that. But, yeah, I guess I just need to pull up my boot straps and accept it's normal. I just wasn't sure if there was more I needed to do to 'help' him sleep longer/learn to self soothe when he wakes at the 3-4 hour intervals.

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