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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 2:32:21 PM   
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He has this habit of taking his bath without using soap. That's right, just gets in the water and soaks, washes his hair, and gets out. I remind him to use soap, I inspect him after a bath and make him do it again if he hasn't used soap. This hasn't worked.

I figured the next time he did this I would serenely take him by the hand, lead him up the stairs and into the bathroom, and then proceed to give him a bath as if he were a two year old. What do you think? Too much? Not enough? Would it work?


Thanks!
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I did this and I say it works wonders! All I had to do was put soap on the sponge and say in a cute baby voice "It's bathy time darlin" and he has scrubbed himself wonderfully every since

Is this the same one who steals your eyeliner??


Yep...same Cadet

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 2:45:26 PM   
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*snigger*

I'm picturing an emo kid getting hosed down by his mother wearing a tattered bathrobe and fuzzy slippers.

Quite funny IMO.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 4:09:12 PM   
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I need to start taking notes.......LOL

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 10:27:07 PM   
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Old pictures of threats becoming reality are great tools. Once upon a time my younger cousin (cool football player) decided to skip school. Since he is my godson my aunt allowed me to punish him soooo. I took the day off of work and I accompanied said cousin to school one day (principals permission) in my finest bathrobe, fuzzy slippers, no makeup and a crooked ponytail (picture valley girlish) and we walked hand in hand to all of his classes and he even got to sit with me at lunch HOW WONDERFULLY EVIL it was. He never skipped school again.... imagine that! Now that Cadet1 is at that age my little cousin ever so sweetly produced a photo of that day..... Cadet1 has nooooo desire to skip school

Soo deliciously Evil
I think you have obtained the rank of Grand Master
with that one.

Any doubters -listen to the Theme Song while reading her post

Got to remember not to drink while reading this thread.



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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 10:36:33 PM   
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Old pictures of threats becoming reality are great tools. Once upon a time my younger cousin (cool football player) decided to skip school. Since he is my godson my aunt allowed me to punish him soooo. I took the day off of work and I accompanied said cousin to school one day (principals permission) in my finest bathrobe, fuzzy slippers, no makeup and a crooked ponytail (picture valley girlish) and we walked hand in hand to all of his classes and he even got to sit with me at lunch HOW WONDERFULLY EVIL it was. He never skipped school again.... imagine that! Now that Cadet1 is at that age my little cousin ever so sweetly produced a photo of that day..... Cadet1 has nooooo desire to skip school

Soo deliciously Evil
I think you have obtained the rank of Grand Master
with that one.

Any doubters -listen to the Theme Song while reading her post

Got to remember not to drink while reading this thread.



Boats




Thanks you sooo very much Sir Boats

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 11:48:19 PM   
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Thanks you sooo very much Sir Boats


No, No, Thank you

Grand master WalkingwithHim2

For such delightfully evil ~ soo extra spicy evil ~

All day and photos

I bet he was scared straight even though College


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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/17/2008 11:57:18 PM   
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Thanks you sooo very much Sir Boats


No, No, Thank you

Grand master WalkingwithHim2

For such delightfully evil ~ soo extra spicy evil ~

All day and photos

I bet he was scared straight even though College


Boats



I told the Cadet. Momma has 3 weeks of vacation time try to skip school just once and I'll be your school chum for those 3 weeks

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 11/18/2008 8:15:07 AM   
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*snigger*

I'm soooo glad I haven't had to do that with the Things. Yet. Mwahahaha.

I'll definitely have to remember it though. Embarrassing Thing 1 when dropping him off will last a while though...he's good to go. Thing 2 is harder to embarrass. It's like trying to embarrass Jim Carey or something.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 12:08:57 PM   
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Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 12:28:13 PM   
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Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.



I will be praying for you, I know how hard it can be sometimes to draw the lines.
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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 12:42:25 PM   
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Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 12:46:03 PM   
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I'm a master at that look...LOL


I would have never guessed.

....yah right!
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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 12:51:23 PM   
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Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:11:01 PM   
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I'm a master at that look...LOL


I would have never guessed.

....yah right!



Shush you. Hey...it comes in handy that's for sure.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:12:35 PM   
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I'm a master at that look...LOL


I would have never guessed.

....yah right!



Shush you. Hey...it comes in handy that's for sure.


Maybe I can take lessons.......I did learn to be mean.....kinda. It could happen.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:12:35 PM   
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Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

That may be true but right now, I'm the dad as well. Maybe it's one of the Alpha Wolf powers that I'll lose when I get married...LOL

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:13:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tinkerbell_

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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

That may be true but right now, I'm the dad as well. Maybe it's one of the Alpa Wolf powers that I'll lose when I get married...LOL

Nah, you may need it. Even when we are married, they are not always there. Besides, one day those boys will be taller than you.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:16:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

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ORIGINAL: Tinkerbell_

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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

That may be true but right now, I'm the dad as well. Maybe it's one of the Alpa Wolf powers that I'll lose when I get married...LOL

Nah, you may need it. Even when we are married, they are not always there. Besides, one day those boys will be taller than you.


Sooner than you think!!! bwahahahahaha

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 1:47:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

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ORIGINAL: Tinkerbell_

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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

That may be true but right now, I'm the dad as well. Maybe it's one of the Alpha Wolf powers that I'll lose when I get married...LOL



My youngest, about a month ago, became the tallest in the house. I have known that he would be the tallest since he was a toddler, but my older son refused to believe he would be passed up. When it happened, it took him nearly a week to accept reality. NOW he says, he will always be stronger. However, someday I fear that will change too. Boys do tend to be quite competitive and my oldest can be quite extreme sometimes. But then again, it has worked for him (two National Championships).
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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/11/2008 2:47:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

Get ready all.......30ish hours until "Shock and Awe"!

My twins are not going to this Fridays dance because they did not do what was required in order to do so. So, we'll see what happens. I guarantee it is not going to be pretty. I need you dads to be on standby to give them the dad look, you know the one that says shape up or else. It always worked for me. I never knew what the "or else" would be, but I did not want to find out.

I'm a master at that look...LOL

We're praying for you. Laying down the law can be very tough...even on the mommies that the kids think are the devil reincarnate.


I don't even have one of those looks. At least I have not found it yet. I thought just the dads were outfitted with such a thing.

That may be true but right now, I'm the dad as well. Maybe it's one of the Alpha Wolf powers that I'll lose when I get married...LOL



My youngest, about a month ago, became the tallest in the house. I have known that he would be the tallest since he was a toddler, but my older son refused to believe he would be passed up. When it happened, it took him nearly a week to accept reality. NOW he says, he will always be stronger. However, someday I fear that will change too. Boys do tend to be quite competitive and my oldest can be quite extreme sometimes. But then again, it has worked for him (two National Championships).

My boys are 3 and half years, 3 pounds, and half an inch apart from each other. Thing 2 is going to pass Thing 1 up in the next few years. Thing 1 is already prepared for this and has no problem with it whatsoever. He feels that if God wants to make Thing 2 taller, then that's the way it needs to be.

Now Thing 2??? Oy... Does a happy dance everytime they get measured and he's grown and Thing 1 hasn't.

That boy needs help sometimes.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/12/2008 12:47:05 PM   
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Here is the update so far.

Twin 1 got a 102 fever last night, so she could not go to school. Which of course means she can't go to the dance either.

I thought Twin 2 would not have wanted to go to the dance without her sister, she is the less outgoing one, but she does, so I will only have to deal with one child rather than 2. Twin 2 told me this morning, " Mom it's not just a dance we are talking about here, it's my life." Oy, the Drama.

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/12/2008 12:55:30 PM   
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Here is the update so far.

Twin 1 got a 102 fever last night, so she could not go to school. Which of course means she can't go to the dance either.

I thought Twin 2 would not have wanted to go to the dance without her sister, she is the less outgoing one, but she does, so I will only have to deal with one child rather than 2. Twin 2 told me this morning, " Mom it's not just a dance we are talking about here, it's my life." Oy, the Drama.


I would simply remind her that HER previous inaction didn't demonstrate this kind of importance. If it had really been THAT important, she would have made sure that nothing prevented her from going.
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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/12/2008 1:00:48 PM   
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Here is the update so far.

Twin 1 got a 102 fever last night, so she could not go to school. Which of course means she can't go to the dance either.

I thought Twin 2 would not have wanted to go to the dance without her sister, she is the less outgoing one, but she does, so I will only have to deal with one child rather than 2. Twin 2 told me this morning, " Mom it's not just a dance we are talking about here, it's my life." Oy, the Drama.


I would simply remind her that HER previous inaction didn't demonstrate this kind of importance. If it had really been THAT important, she would have made sure that nothing prevented her from going.


Yes, my answer was very similar.
Don't ya love how kids are able to twist anything they do, up so much, they can convince themselves, that it is someone elses fault. This is my greatest pet peeve, blame-shifting

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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/12/2008 1:35:29 PM   
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Here is the update so far.

Twin 1 got a 102 fever last night, so she could not go to school. Which of course means she can't go to the dance either.

I thought Twin 2 would not have wanted to go to the dance without her sister, she is the less outgoing one, but she does, so I will only have to deal with one child rather than 2. Twin 2 told me this morning, " Mom it's not just a dance we are talking about here, it's my life." Oy, the Drama.


I would simply remind her that HER previous inaction didn't demonstrate this kind of importance. If it had really been THAT important, she would have made sure that nothing prevented her from going.



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RE: The Single Parent support Thread - 12/12/2008 1:40:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tinkerbell_

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ORIGINAL: benelchi

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ORIGINAL: WaitingforBoaz

Here is the update so far.

Twin 1 got a 102 fever last night, so she could not go to school. Which of course means she can't go to the dance either.

I thought Twin 2 would not have wanted to go to the dance without her sister, she is the less outgoing one, but she does, so I will only have to deal with one child rather than 2. Twin 2 told me this morning, " Mom it's not just a dance we are talking about here, it's my life." Oy, the Drama.


I would simply remind her that HER previous inaction didn't demonstrate this kind of importance. If it had really been THAT important, she would have made sure that nothing prevented her from going.




Tritto

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