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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/12/2008 10:47:08 PM
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jonfortean6
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I know. But I dont know...I think that I am just probably over-stressing everything...and that things aren't as bad as they seem.
I know how you feel man. In these cases, one can only give it to God. In any case, really.
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 2:35:04 AM
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I know. But I dont know...I think that I am just probably over-stressing everything...and that things aren't as bad as they seem.
I know how you feel man. In these cases, one can only give it to God. In any case, really.
Yeah, like your broken and smashed heart that knew a perfect guy was way too good to be true?
God's in control though, I'll get through this! *smiles weakly*
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 11:58:22 AM
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Whoa, Chickadee, what's up?
Not much...just completely confused about guys...
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 2:50:39 PM
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Not much...just completely confused about guys...
care to share? you don't have to if you don't want to.
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 3:09:54 PM
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Not much...just completely confused about guys...
care to share? you don't have to if you don't want to.
Sure...Singing Boy broke my heart and handed it back...it kind of hurt.
He ended up liking a different girl and was really rude when he told me about it, my friend "Christopher Robin" (that's what we call him) told me it wasn't my fault and that since he was too stupid to like me that God would send me an even better guy...then joked that if one of these crazy guys didn't end up liking me, he would, he makes me smile! I'm so glad I have two guy friends who are ALWAYS there no matter what! Him, my friend "Wrestler" and of course, My Jesus Christ! Let's just say that Singing Boy didn't turn out to be who I thought he was, I can't believe I forgot to keep my heart guarded...again?! Oh, well! I'll live and get over him and this whole thing!
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 3:30:13 PM
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Sure...Singing Boy broke my heart and handed it back...it kind of hurt.
He ended up liking a different girl and was really rude when he told me about it, my friend "Christopher Robin" (that's what we call him) told me it wasn't my fault and that since he was too stupid to like me that God would send me an even better guy...then joked that if one of these crazy guys didn't end up liking me, he would, he makes me smile! I'm so glad I have two guy friends who are ALWAYS there no matter what! Him, my friend "Wrestler" and of course, My Jesus Christ! Let's just say that Singing Boy didn't turn out to be who I thought he was, I can't believe I forgot to keep my heart guarded...again?! Oh, well! I'll live and get over him and this whole thing!
Oh man, Jchick. I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. But praise God that through the trials, we become more likened unto Christ.
Your situation kind of reminds me of Psalm 55, when David is crying out to the Lord. The whole chapter is powerful, but verses 21 and 22 really moved me.
The context of the passage is that David was betrayed. But he wasn't betrayed by his enemy, it was by one of his closest friends. And in this chapter, David is pouring out his heart to God.
Verses 21 and 22 say: "[21] The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.
[22] Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."
I think that's just such a great promise, and I hope it gives you at least a little bit of peace through this.
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 3:39:26 PM
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Sure...Singing Boy broke my heart and handed it back...it kind of hurt.
He ended up liking a different girl and was really rude when he told me about it, my friend "Christopher Robin" (that's what we call him) told me it wasn't my fault and that since he was too stupid to like me that God would send me an even better guy...then joked that if one of these crazy guys didn't end up liking me, he would, he makes me smile! I'm so glad I have two guy friends who are ALWAYS there no matter what! Him, my friend "Wrestler" and of course, My Jesus Christ! Let's just say that Singing Boy didn't turn out to be who I thought he was, I can't believe I forgot to keep my heart guarded...again?! Oh, well! I'll live and get over him and this whole thing!
Oh man, Jchick. I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. But praise God that through the trials, we become more likened unto Christ.
Your situation kind of reminds me of Psalm 55, when David is crying out to the Lord. The whole chapter is powerful, but verses 21 and 22 really moved me.
The context of the passage is that David was betrayed. But he wasn't betrayed by his enemy, it was by one of his closest friends. And in this chapter, David is pouring out his heart to God.
Verses 21 and 22 say: "[21] The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.
[22] Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."
I think that's just such a great promise, and I hope it gives you at least a little bit of peace through this.
Thanks Jon! I'll be okies...it just kind of threw me for a loop is all. But, hey! No guy is worth sitting around and crying over! Thanks for the verses, they were AWESOME! *smiles*
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:06:52 PM
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It's not that I got so easily excited over the relationship...it's that I thought he was someone different than who he really is.
same thing. hopeful thinking, being excited, whats the difference!
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And I can't be pessimistic...it's depressing and I hate being depressed!
well how about realistic?
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:17:20 PM
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It's not that I got so easily excited over the relationship...it's that I thought he was someone different than who he really is.
same thing. hopeful thinking, being excited, whats the difference!
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And I can't be pessimistic...it's depressing and I hate being depressed!
well how about realistic?
There's a difference...
Yeah, I am going to start being realistic!
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:20:25 PM
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YES! SCORE FOR TRUTHFULNESS
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:21:25 PM
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YES! SCORE FOR TRUTHFULNESS
I'm confused...who scored?
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:44:34 PM
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Konstantinos
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the truth
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 4:56:08 PM
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Konstantinos
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dont worry it wasnt supposed to make much sense
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 5:00:16 PM
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don't worry it wasn't supposed to make much sense
Okay! I was getting worried that I really am turning into a dumb Blondy...
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 5:08:11 PM
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Konstantinos
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i wish i was a space cadet!
wouldnt that be fun? flying an X-wing against a star destroyer all over again!
good old days
granted you've no idea what im talking about probably, hence if this was in real life i wouldnt even mention it. how sad is that?
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 5:09:42 PM
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i wish i was a space cadet!
wouldnt that be fun? flying an X-wing against a star destroyer all over again!
good old days
granted you've no idea what im talking about probably, hence if this was in real life i wouldnt even mention it. how sad is that?
I am completely and TOTALLY lost...
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 5:17:02 PM
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Konstantinos
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and how does that make you feel?
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RE: The November Cha-Cha(t) Thread! - 11/13/2008 5:19:05 PM
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jesuschick247
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and how does that make you feel?
Okay actually...I kind of enjoy making someone explain to me what's going on...
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